Wednesday, March 23, 2016

Fragility of Love

"or maybe it's juz that beautiful things are easily broken by the world" 

Marriage is abt 2 individuals decided to live their life as 1 couple. Therefore, lotsa of adjustment, accommodating, complementing, sacrificing, tolerating, and trusting are needed to survive as 1. If one is not that committed, it will be better to continue living as 1 individual coz most of the time is abt 我们 not 我. Else the love might slowly fade away...

Many a time, we took things for granted n forgotten how we fell in love, wat we went thru to be together, the memories we shared, when is the last time we did or said sweet things to each other. 

A relationship cannot survive on its own, Marriage need nurturing of 2 adults, giving support, & providing emotional guidance. 

How to nuture love? There needs to be Respect, Constant Kind & honest communication, Willingness to work thru difficulties & disagreements, A sense of humor, Sharing life lessons, Sharing goals  & dreams, Compassion & forgiveness, Being able to admit mistakes. *Ref: PsychologyToday

A couple is like a Team, giving the relationship what it needs to thrive is impt to foster a deep & loving relationship for an everlasting love.