Wednesday, November 10, 2004

OvEr-DoiNg

"Disappointments are like road humps, they slow you down a bit but you will enjoy the smooth road afterwards. Don't stay on the humps too long. Move on!
When you feel down becoz you didn't get what you want, just sit tight and be happy, becoz God is thinking of something better to give you."

I feel that being too devoted on thing or a person can be bad.(Of Coz, not telling you to be unfaithful) But once a person get too involved, one will be over-doing. All the thoughts will be focus on only that thing or person, which might bring unhappiness / unpleasant feelings to the surrounding people. So, we should know our own limits, which include what we should do and should not do. Over-doing will have side-effects feelings, like irritated, fear and anger. If you love the person, let him/her go, if he/she meant to be yours, he/she will return.

"We spend too much time looking for the right person to love or finding fault with those we already love, when instead we should be perfecting the love we give."

It is true that people tend to make comparision, but always we compare the good sides of others' bf/gf with our own. How often did we make comparision against the bad sides?? One won't know how fortunate one could be, until they lose it.