Sunday, March 26, 2006

DaNger zoNe



Loving someone and being with someone is so difficult...
There is always a danger zone when a relationship reaches certain stages. In this zone, there is doubts, uncertainty, misunderstanding, etc... Why a couple come to tis zone? Is it that the love is not enough, care is not enough, understanding not enough, trust is not enough or we humans are juz not contented with wat we have. My sis said tht as long as we passed the zone, we will be fine.. But on wat basis should tis zone be overcome? Hare-care and let it thru, the problem is not solve.. Solutions should be found rite... or no, coz the truth always hurts. Can love solve everything? As long as both love each other deeply, there is nothing both cant overcome. However, i always prefer the truth, nothing but the truth, be it hurt or not... i should be strong and walk it thru myself.

Thursday, March 23, 2006

LovE iS a GaMbLe

**Is going into a relationship a Gamble? **

No one know whether a relationship will turn out fruitful or fruitless. If you are a aimless gambler then you will be drifting in love but if you know how to gamble smartly, then you might not be hurt.

To gamble smartly, you need to know the person well e.g. observe his/her behaviour towards frenzs, things, happenings, likes & dislikes, etc. AND horoscope compatibility..hee.. If you juz jump into the relationship, there is a higher chance of losing. There might be some chance of winning, but how many percent of hope? The probability is lower.

However, people always say there is no harm trying, provided tht you are ready for some hurt. We always hope for the best outcome if possible, who wanna be in a relationship tht we might get heartaches.

Here are some analysis from msn.com: (Hee...How true huh?) I find mine quite true lor, however all of below is juz for fun and reading leisure, wat's impt is how u manage the relationship and how much u two love each other. Love makes all possible...

Capricorn & Pisces - Mine

The profound Pisces sensitivity gravitates toward a solid Capricorn mooring (secure), a reassuring and respectable person. But the total absence of materialism characteristic of the Pisces irritates the Capricorn, who knows what things are worth after having earned them through hard work. Discussion is difficult, due to the Capricorn's rock-hard realism (practicality/matter-of-factness). The Pisces floats in a spiritual, emotional, poetic medium. However, often the latter's pliancy (easily adaptable) makes it possible for him to submit to Capricorn's direction.


Leo & Capricorn - Mei's

Initially, it seems an unlikely match. These two socially-oriented signs often meet at parties and social functions, but rarely cross the threshold to intimacy. Capricorn's aridity is almost unable to accommodate the Leo's gushy sentimentality and romanticism. Though the Lion enjoys Capricornian humor, the latter's independence, self-sufficiency, and smugness quickly arouses her ire (anger). Moreover, extravagant spending is inimical to the Saturnine. If each swallows their pride, the odd couple may succeed. If not, it won't...

Sagittarius & Libra - Jing's

The meeting of two such optimistic minds should lead straight to bliss. Together, they enjoy elaborating their plans, consolidating their social prominence, and embarking on adventurous journeys. Librans lean towards marriage, but Sagittarius holds back, fearful of losing her independence. However, if she can be convinced that marriage will not crimp her freedom, the knot will soon be tied. The couple, surrounded by a sea of friends, will carry out shared dreams and ambitions, endowed with just enough common sense and rationality to accomplish them.

Aquarius & Virgo - Wen's

The only turf these two signs can share is the intellectual one. The traditional, methodical Virgo panics in the absence of familiarity and routine; the Aquarius devotes herself to overturning the routine and modernizing the world. Likewise, in the emotional realm, Virgo seeks certainty while Aquarius craves the unpredictable. The Aquarian chill bothers the devoted Virgoan, who may reproach himself for some inner failing. However, love makes all things possible... But this couple will be a challenge for both partners to tackle.

Cancer & Aries - SLing's

Sensitive, gentle, subtle Cancer is likely to be offended by the Ram's sometimes brutal impulsiveness. One worships the family; the other feels hemmed in by it. Dynamic Aries resents being tied down to the home and hearth primordial to Cancer, and Cancer is likely to withdraw into a prolonged sulk if she feels abandoned. Only shared compromise, patience, and attentiveness can build this couple. However, the Aries will always be the boss.


Cancer & Pisces

When these two Water signs flow together, the Moon soon locks into Neptune's orbit. Cancer and Pisces intuitively understand each other; they handle each other's sensitivity with respect, care, and gentleness. Their personalities are likely to merge. In physical love, they give of their souls for mutual delight. Loathing power struggles, they silently respect each other's solitude, and barely need to speak aloud. Pragmatic Cancer can relieve dreamy Pisces of life's daily tasks. If the latter is willing to settle down, total harmony is in store for them.


Scorpio & Scorpio (the match tht we discussed)

One of the most erotic pairings possible, the Scorpio duo ecstatically merges in the depth of shared emotion. Both endowed with hyper-intuitiveness, they sense each other's needs without speaking, communicating in an intimate and profoundly aquatic personal language. The only danger they must beware of is their possessiveness, which can undermine their happiness. When jealousy sets in, they can spy on and torment each other into sheer agony. If only this pair of Scorpions could live alone on some deserted island, nothing could trouble their bliss. It would be Paradise!