CaRe for OtheRs

When things never turn out to be what you expected, how will you feel?

Sometimes, I really don't understand is it that we had mis-interpret how things should be or things juz changed as time goes by. You may feel that you are close with one, but he/she may not feel the same. You may feel that you care alot for one, but he/she may not care even a least bit for you. You may feel that you will go all way out if possible for one, but he/she may not. Why? I understand that some may be self-centered that they will only think of themselves first rather than other people. And maybe the way that one caring for someone may be different from others. It is true that one may do things for someone without wanting any returns, but who wouldnt yearn for some return or response? Friends are about helping one another and not juz taking without giving...

For me, i do care and think alot for my close-ones like family, sisters, friends and bf. But i think i am not good at expressing myself. Prehaps, i juz feel that as long as i do care, i do not need to show it out so obviously that i cared. I prefer to shower my care in silent, to know that they are well. If you understand me well, you will know that i cared, even how little i keep in contact or how little i organise to meet. However, when friends needed support or help, i will try my very best to give.

However, some think that you must show it if you care, not showing is not caring. So what if you show that you care and when one needed help, you are not there? Or so what if you show out that you care and the care is not true or sincere? It would be so meaningless then.

Be true to others, Be true to yourselves. Reach out for others, then others will reach out for you.

Always remember that what you reap is what you sow. Dun expect people to care for you, if you never care before.