ToLeRancE LiMitEd

Do you think there is a limit to tolerance ? And how much is max limit ?

I think we realli cant measure and it is up to individual that how much you wanna it to be the max of your tolerance level. I have higher tolerance level for my close friends but lower for loved ones, i dunno why. Maybe i expect more from them, esp my bf. But i feel there is no limit to my tolerance for him. People always said we should feel contented of wat we have, nothing is perfect. Having no expectations may sounded worst. That means you dun see any good or improvement that they will achieved. Or you can pick up anyone on the streets as there is no requirements..

But towards friends, there will be a limit to my tolerance level. If i dun like the person (i am not those kind whom dislike others for no reasons, he/she should have stepped on me), i wont wanna talk, see, be with the person, or even walking pass. I wont want any acquaintance with me, all around me and whom i keep contact with, are my friends. I dun see the need of having acquaintance, which i feel it is untrue.

So friends reading tis and knew abt the pig-dog incident (Read Dec12 Blog), stop asking me to go out/make up with him, or tell me that i am making things difficult, and said "Aiyo, so long liao, forget it lah." I think everyone has our own choice and circles of friends rite. If i go out wif my other circle of friends and knowing another circle will not click, i wont force them to join. Like if U know U wont click with someone, U will not wanna go out with them. I dun mind if my poly friends go out without me, when they wanna go out with tht pig-dog, but juz dun force me or try to persude me to go. U can say i am stubborn , petty or etc... That's me. I will not wanna do things which i dont like. Seriously, there is no hatred or dislike towards him now, juz that i dun wanna have tis kind of friends.

When things not happened on us, we will seem to take it lightly, not trying to understand others' feelings or put ourselves in one's shoes. Even if we did, different people will have different reactions, that is why humans are complicated. Things that we dont mind, doesnt means others dun mind.. So try spare a thought for others and care about others' feelings.