ArGuinG

"Never argue with a fool. People might not know the difference."

Happened to come across tis phase in one of my email, which i strongly agree. ;) Because more than 1 year ago, i had tis "used to be" frenz(guy), shouted and sweared at me becoz of a CHAIR.?? Actualli not very close with him, he is my poly friends' friend. I sat on a chair which he was previously sitting on. Funny or i should say crazy rite? I remained slient throughout his swearing, and of coz i remained sitting at tat seat. For me, i can be quite stubborn, i prefer the 'soft' method, if not, the more he wanted the seat, the more i wont give in.

Now, he is no longer kept as my frenz, i wont wanna befriend with someone which had reached the limit of my tolerance level. I belong to those extreme kind, i dont even wanna see him passing-by in the street. I dun feel pity of losing tis frenz. Some of them may feel that i'm too petty, but tht's ME! Like it or not, i wont have a second thought of losing a friend if they force me to go out with him, even if one of my poly friend's wedding invite him, i will not attend. I dont need my friends to understand me or feel how i feel for tis incident but at the least dont force me to doing things that i wont do. This is not declaring war, it will not end, no matter how long ago it had happened.

Although people always said must have a forgiving heart, if someone slaps your right-side of cheek, let him/her slaps your left-side of cheek as well. Please.. i am not GOD. I admit that i did felt upset over tat incident, at tht time, i kept thinking why did he reacted so strongly and was i in the wrong too. Then i come to my point tht no matter wat happened, frenz will not swear to frenz, if one did, they are not frenzs.

Recently, i regained contact with a long-lost secondary sch frenz. Actualli not lost, we are separated due to some reasons/quarrel. Now that we managed to keep in touch again, i will realli treasure her, coz she is realli a nice, caring frenz whom i will feel sad losing. Although, we had missed in some parts of our life, i dont wanna miss the rest.

"Truly great friends are hard to find, difficult to leave, and impossible to forget."

"True friends are the people that are there for you unconditionally. They are the people that never question you and support you no matter what the circumstances are. They are the people worth living for."

"A friend is someone who can see the truth and pain in you even when you are laughing."