EsSenCe

"You cannot judge a tree, or a person, by only one season, and that the essence of whom they are - and the pleasure, joy, and love that come from that life - can only be measured at the end, when all the seasons are up. If you give up when it is winter, you will miss the promise of your spring, the beauty of your summer, fulfilment of your fall. Do not let the pain of one season destroy the joy of all the rest. Do not judge life by one difficult season. Persevere through the difficult patches and better times are sure to come some time or later. "

Sometimes, things may not be as bad as we thought they will be, and also they may not be as good as we think. We will need to see from all-sides, in order to get the full picture. We should not shut ourselves to receive only smoothing frequency that we prefer. Everyone knows how to say music to your ears but i believe only true friends will tell you advices that help you which sometimes may be hurtful or harsh. If you open to comment and advices, it's your benefits, if you dont, they got nothing to lose... but you will tend to lose alot.