The Importance

To reliase the importance of something is to gain it then lose it, if one has never experience the gaining and gained process, how can one judge or know how pain or important it is. What one really experienced is the regret or pity or "ai wan" (hokkien) that they missed it.
I once heard this saying "If you love the person, let him goes, if he come back, he is meant to be yours." So wherever your him/her is, or whoever your him/her be with, gives him/her your blessings. If you really love that person, you will want him/her to be happy too... rite! And he/she may not be the most happy being with you. Sometimes, what one can give may not be what some others yearn for. Everyone has different needs and wants, one man meat, may be another man poison.
Life goes on, there is no one in this world that cant survive without whoever... We should look forward to the future.
"Tomorrow always a better day"