Losing Self

When I am single, I am addressed by my name. Everything I do, I do it for myself. Everything I decide, I decide for myself. I AM I 我。

When I am married, I am addressed by Mrs xxx. Everything I decide, I need to ask and seek opinion. I AM WE 我们。

When I have a kid, I am addressed by XXX mummy. Everything I decide, I decide for my kid's best interests. I AM for my kid. 

我累了怎么办，心累了怎么办